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"This early training to “be nice” causes women to override their intuitions. In that sense, they are actually purposefully taught to submit to the predator. Imagine a wolf mother teaching her young to “be nice” in the face of a angry ferret or a wily diamondback rattler. … We may have been taught to set aside acute insight in order to get along. However the reward for simply being nice in oppressive circumstances is to be mistreated all the more."
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archtype (via